5 Things to Avoid on Your ‘First Date’ With a Prospect

First Date Blunders

Take away the top five mistakes we see salespeople make on their first date with a prospect.

  1. Don’t be surprised by a no show—it happens.
  2. Don’t give up on no shows.
  3. Don’t let your anticipation get the best of you.
  4. Don’t mention the time.
  5. Don’t change locations or times.

1. Don’t be surprised by a no show—it happens.

In our experience, no shows happen 25-30% of the time. Your prospective clients are running a business operation and although they’ve agreed to give you some of their precious time, unexpected fires do happen in the office and you are not their first priority.

It doesn’t mean they won’t reschedule, but it’s important to be prepared for these situations and how to handle them. Of course, being stood up is undesirable, but it doesn’t mean there wasn’t a good reason or they’re not interested in you. Sales, like life, is about timing.

2. Don’t give up on no shows.

Your sales development team should be connecting your calls and tracking prospects down if they don’t get on the phone. Sometimes people forget or get caught up so it’s nice to have a back-up plan or wingman built-in. Be patient and continue the pursuit. Don’t give up too soon.

That said, if you reach a 40-50% no show rate, you should probably take stock and evaluate your messaging and/or positioning. If that doesn’t yield positive results, there might be an issue with your qualification process. If you’re being stood up half the time, you might want to reconsider who you’re courting and how you’re meeting these prospects.

3. Don’t let your anticipation get the best of you.

Sending lengthy emails or LinkedIn messages to your prospects before the first meeting might actually turn them off and give them a reason to rule you out. We understand you want to prepare for the call and give the prospect as much information about your company as you can, but again patience is key.

Bombarding them with information before you actually meet is not necessary. Play it safe and wait for the first call—because you can handle objections far easier on a live sales call versus over email.

4. Don’t mention the time.

If the prospect happens to be late, don’t start the conversation with how much time you have left in the meeting/call. If you start the conversation off by mentioning you have X amount of time left, this leaves a bad taste in their mouth from the start and sets the meeting off on a sour note. We cannot stress this point enough.

A prospect has agreed to give you some of their precious time, so be gracious and make the most of whatever time you have. Potential buyers should feel like this is the only place you have to be and you have all the time in the world for them. If you hit it off, you won’t even remember they were late and if you don’t … well, that’s less time you needed to spend with them.

5. Don’t change locations or times.

Changing locations or rescheduling is probably the biggest problem we see with clients. First, this only leads to confusion for the prospect and will boost your no show rates. Any changes you need to make should happen behind the scenes. You want to make the appointment as seamless as possible for the prospect.

Altering a call bridge link after the invite has already been sent or rescheduling makes you look bad before you have even had a chance to talk with them. Chances are if you need to reschedule multiple times, you will lose the opportunity to earn their business. We see it happen all the time.

Bottom line, follow these simple rules and the chances are you will get through that all important first date and be on your way to building a lasting relationship.

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